I know what it takes to get free. Let’s go to work.
The Men’s Freedom Intensives
You’ve confessed. You’ve promised. You’ve tried accountability.
But you keep going back.
After House of Resurrection, there’s no going back.
Why?
Because we don’t do behavior modification.
That puts a shine on the exterior.
Transformation goes under the hood.
We work with the beliefs, patterns, and triggers causing the breakdown.
And when our work is done… we don’t send you home with a “good luck.”
We stay in the fight with you, because lasting freedom isn’t a quick fix.
Choose the Intensive experience that fits your needs, your season, and step into lasting freedom.
Online
Micro-Intensive
$750
A focused online Intensive that helps you identify what’s driving the behavior and leave with a personalized plan for moving forward.
Residential
Freedom Intensive
$1950
A powerful two-day residential experience designed to go beneath the behavior, uncover the why, and build a practical pathway to lasting freedom.
Residential
Freedom 365
$2950
Our most comprehensive option: the full two-day residential Intensive plus a year of ongoing coaching, community and support to help you turn breakthrough into a new way of life.
Choose the Level of Support That Fits You
Online
Micro-Intensive
$750
A focused online Intensive that helps you identify what’s driving the behavior and leave with a personalized plan for moving forward.
Residential
Freedom Intensive
$1950
A powerful two-day residential experience designed to go beneath the behavior, uncover the why, and build a practical pathway to lasting freedom.
Residential
Freedom 365
$2950
Our most comprehensive option: the full two-day residential Intensive plus a year of ongoing coaching, community and support to help you turn breakthrough into a new way of life.
WHAT A TWO-DAY FREEDOM INTENSIVE LOOKS LIKE
DAY ONE
A full day of honesty, clarity, and breakthrough
• The Four Dimensions of Freedom: Heart, Mind, Soul & Body
Why real change requires more than willpower — it requires full-person transformation.
• The Courage Conversation
Disclose truth safely, humbly, and honorably — to avoid causing further damage.
• The Freedom Path: New Heart → New Behavior
Discover how Jesus rebuilds desire, not just discipline.
• Roots & Origins: Trauma, Shame, and the Story Beneath the Habit
Understanding why you run, hide, numb, or escape — and how to stop repeating the cycle.
• Identity & Lies: Exposing the Dark Narratives Running Your Life
Take back the ground shame has stolen.
• Mindset Renewal: What God Was Really After in You
Rewriting your beliefs about God, yourself, and what freedom actually means.
• Understanding the Body
Hormones, stress, sleep, rhythms, and how your physical world shapes your purity.
• The Stone + Giant Exercise
A sacred moment of naming the giant that has ruled your life — and the courage to confront it.
• Evening Prayer & Reflection
Clarity for the battle. Courage for tomorrow.
DAY TWO
A full day of rewiring, rebuilding, and rising into a new future
• The Neuroscience of Change
How your brain forms habits, why porn hijacks it, and how to reverse the wiring.
• The 10-Second Window
Mastering temptation moments that determine your life’s direction.
• Temptations, Triggers & The Escape Cycle
Learning your patterns — and breaking them for good.
• Rebuilding Marriage: The Healing Roadmap
What trust repair actually looks like … and the steps a real man takes.
• Marriage Repair Foundations
The truth about rebuilding trust, owning the damage, and giving your wife the pathway she deserves.
• The Advocate & Brotherhood Model
Why men fall alone and rise together — and how to build your support team.
• The 60-Day Traction Plan
A clear, practical roadmap for staying free after the Intensive.
• Sacred Rituals - Filling Your Toolbelt
Practical, spiritual, and behavioral tools and practices to win the fight long-term.
• Closing Blessing & Commissioning
Not an ending — a resurrection.
What sets House of Resurrection apart?
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Our outcomes are so high because we treat the whole man—heart, mind, soul, and body—combining the way of Jesus with proven neuroscience, then giving every man a personalized Freedom Plan and the follow-up support to actually live it.
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Jesus-centered transformation isn’t bracelets, slogans, or a bag of tricks—it’s practicing the way of Jesus in ways that put to death the destructive desires of the old self and bring to life the resurrected you.
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We offer distraction-free, temptation-free refuge where you can finally breathe, focus, and do the deep work without the noise.
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Blaine Bartel is a Certified Freedom Coach who merges Christ-centered formation with proven neuroscience. He brings the hard-earned authority of his own victory over a 23-year addiction and more than a decade of personally walking thousands of men toward lasting freedom.
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Comparable secular treatment programs can cost $10,000–$20,000 a week. We’ve intentionally kept our costs low because life-changing help shouldn’t be reserved for those who can afford it.
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For those who need it, we offer a monthly investment that fits your budget — because money should never be the reason a man stays stuck.
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Every Intensive includes 60 days of traction through the Katharos course and The Collective brotherhood, while our Residential Intensives add couples follow-up, a personalized Freedom Plan, and direct personal access to Blaine.
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Each Intensive includes a subscription to Lead Me Not accountability and filtering software for all your devices, helping you build strong digital boundaries and lasting freedom.
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Katharos is our structured 60-day masterclass combining powerful video training, practical exercises, and a step-by-step guide to help you build new habits, renew your mind, and lock in your transformation back home.
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Complimentary coaching for couples after the Residential Intensive — giving wives clarity, communication tools, and hope.
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For those choosing the Residential Intensive, Blaine is only one call or text away — real support from someone who’s walked the same road and won.
Each Intensive includes a subscription to Lead Me Not accountability and filtering software for all your devices, helping you build strong digital boundaries and lasting freedom.
“I battled porn for 17 years and never believed freedom was possible — two years after my Intensive, I’m still living healed and clean.”
-M.R., Denver, CO
“The moment I picked him up at the airport, I knew something in him was different — five years later we’re helping other couples heal.”
- L. & D. M., Sacramento, CA
“I was skeptical — we’re not super religious people — but this completely changed my husband’s life and saved our marriage.”
- A.T., Philadelphia, PA
“I came as a fired pastor ready to end it all; I left with my life, my calling, and real brothers who walked me back into ministry.”
— P.E., St. Paul, MN
“Blaine, just a note three years after our Intensive together — I haven’t relapsed into porn in over 2½ years, my wife and I are in love again, and I’ve returned to ministry on the mission field in Haiti… thank you for giving me my life back.”
— P.C., Miami, FL
TESTIMONIALS
“The payment plan was a lifesaver for us… it made what felt impossible financially completely doable.”
-P.R., Grand Rapids, MI
“Our lives were so transformed through my husband’s Intensive that we now partner with House of Resurrection to help other men rise.”
-C. & J. K., Calgary, Canada
“The affordability shocked me — meals, lodging, and world-class coaching for a price any man can reach. And then to experience freedom for the first time I can remember…”
— T.J., Toronto, ON, Canada“My wife was ready to leave me. I had failed again and again. It was do or die for me and one year later, here i am. Married. Happy. and free! Thank you Blaine!”
— O.H.,, Dallas, TX
“I did my research. programming similar to House of Resurrection, cost multiplied thousands of dollars. I would have paid twice as much for all that Blaine poured into me.”
— B.G., Vancouver, Canada
“To have someone walk with me for a full year after the Intensive was unbelievable — I finally felt like I wasn’t fighting alone.”
- B.J., Boise, ID
“One weekend here did more for my recovery than five years of counseling — and the full year of follow-up sealed the change.”
— R.L., Tulsa, OK
Why Blaine’s Coaching Gets Results
For more than a decade, Blaine has walked hundreds of men out of the darkest cycles of sexual addiction and back into freedom, integrity, and purpose.
He’s lived it.
After battling a 23-year sexual addiction that nearly destroyed his life, marriage, and ministry, Blaine experienced his own resurrection through honesty, deep inner healing, and the transforming power of Jesus.
It’s proven.
More than 80% of men who complete Blaine’s intensives and follow-up work experience measurable, lasting freedom—not just short-term behavior change.
He goes to the root.
Most programs focus on stopping the behavior. Blaine focuses on what’s beneath the behavior—trauma, shame, story, identity, triggers, and unmet wounds that keep men stuck.
It’s holistic and personal.
Every man receives a tailored plan that integrates neuroscience, spiritual formation, identity work, and practical daily habits.
It’s Jesus-centered.
Not moralism. Not self-help. Resurrection.
Real change happens when the whole person—mind, body, and spirit—comes into the light.
This is why Blaine’s coaching consistently produces deep, lasting transformation in the men who are ready to do the work.
FAQ’S
How do I schedule my Freedom Intensive?
IIt’s simple: choose the Intensive that’s right for you, complete the registration form, and secure your spot with a small deposit. Blaine will personally work with your schedule to book your Intensive, typically within 2–4 weeks.
What is the difference between a the three Intensive opportunities?
The three Intensives offer different levels of depth and ongoing support:
Micro-Intensive — A focused 3-hour online experience for men ready to confront porn, masturbation, chat-based sexual behavior, or other destructive patterns before they go deeper. You’ll identify what’s driving the cycle, learn practical brain-based tools, and leave with a personalized Freedom Plan, plus 60 days of Katharos and Collective support.
Freedom Intensive — Our immersive two-day residential experience for men dealing with long-term addiction, affairs, escalating sexual behavior, or a hidden double life. We go beneath behavior into your story, wounds, beliefs, shame, identity, and brain patterns, with couples follow-up and personal access to Blaine after you return home.
Freedom Intensive 365 — Everything in the two-day residential Freedom Intensive, plus a full year of structured support and accountability. It’s designed for the man who doesn’t just want a breakthrough—he wants someone walking with him long enough to help make freedom his new way of life. This includes “anytime access” to Blaine.
What makes this different from rehab or counseling?
Most programs try to fix behavior — we go after identity and desire using a proven blend of Christ-centered formation + neuroscience. Freedom doesn’t happen in a moment… but resurrection does start there.
What are your success rates?
While secular treatment hovers near 20% success after one year, over 80 % of our men remain free long-term. Why? Because the real transformation happens in the months after the Intensive, and we walk with you every step of the way.
Do I need to tell my wife?
Honesty is essential for real freedom, but timing matters. Blaine will guide you in when and how to disclose so it becomes a healing moment instead of a traumatic one.
Do you help spouses through the pain of betrayal?
Yes. Both Residential Intensives include support for your spouse through private Zoom follow-up after you return home, helping you navigate betrayal, rebuild safety, and begin restoring trust together. Blaine is also available before the Intensive to answer your spouse’s questions and help them understand what to expect.
What if I'm single or separated?
We coach men in all life stages. Whether you’re rebuilding a marriage or preparing for a future one, this is the safest place to reset your life and future relationships.
How many men will be in my Intensive?
Usually 2–3 other men will walk with your on this road toward freedom. This dynamic is intentional — when men step into honesty together, the shame loses its power, breakthroughs multiply, and courage transfers from one heart to another. You get personalized coaching and the strength of brotherhood, creating a transformation that goes deeper and lasts longer.
Do I need to be religious?
No — you just need to be hungry for freedom. We lead you on the Jesus path, not a religious one.
What should I bring?
We’ll send a simple packing list (clothes, toiletries, Bible if you have one). Everything else — housing, food, coaching, and resources — is provided.
How do I get there?
Drive directly to our secure residence near Tulsa or fly in to Tulsa International airport.
How much does it cost?
Comparable secular treatment programs can cost $10,000–$20,000 per week. We’ve intentionally kept our Intensives accessible without sacrificing the depth of care, personal coaching, and follow-up support.
Micro-Intensive — $750: 3-hour private online Intensive + personalized Freedom Plan + 60 days of Katharos and The Collective + 3 months of LeadMeNot accountability.
Freedom Intensive — $1,950: Two-day residential Intensive + lodging and meals + deep personal coaching + Freedom Plan + Katharos and The Collective + spouse/couples follow-up + personal access to Blaine.
Freedom Intensive 365 — $2,950: Everything in the Residential Intensive, plus 12 months of continued coaching, brotherhood, accountability, and support to help make freedom a lifestyle.
We’re not trying to make recovery cheap. We’re trying to make deep, lasting transformation accessible.
Do you offer financing?
Yes. Secure your Intensive with a $175 deposit, then spread the remaining balance over 12 months with no interest—because finances should never stand in the way of freedom.
Is this confidential?
100%. What happens here stays here. No reporting, no labels — only restoration. That includes pastors and ministers.
Will I really be free?
If you fully commit — yes. We’ve watched hundreds of men step out of the grave and never go back. You don’t need another attempt… You need a resurrection.
Schedule a Private Consult with Blaine.
Not sure which Intensive is right for you, want to learn more, or have a question for Blaine? Complete this form and we’ll schedule a call with you and Blaine within 48 hours.