The Men’s Freedom Intensive
It’s time to take a real step to real freedom.
48 HOURS OF FREEDOM
DAY ONE
A full day of honesty, clarity, and breakthrough
• The Four Dimensions of Freedom: Heart, Mind, Soul & Body
Why real change requires more than willpower — it requires full-person transformation.
• The Courage Conversation
Disclose truth safely, humbly, and honorably — to avoid causing further damage.
• The Freedom Path: New Heart → New Behavior
Discover how Jesus rebuilds desire, not just discipline.
• Roots & Origins: Trauma, Shame, and the Story Beneath the Habit
Understanding why you run, hide, numb, or escape — and how to stop repeating the cycle.
• Identity & Lies: Exposing the Dark Narratives Running Your Life
Take back the ground shame has stolen.
• Mindset Renewal: What God Was Really After in You
Rewriting your beliefs about God, yourself, and what freedom actually means.
• Understanding the Body
Hormones, stress, sleep, rhythms, and how your physical world shapes your purity.
• The Stone + Giant Exercise
A sacred moment of naming the giant that has ruled your life — and the courage to confront it.
• Evening Prayer & Reflection
Clarity for the battle. Courage for tomorrow.
DAY TWO
A full day of rewiring, rebuilding, and rising into a new future
• The Neuroscience of Change
How your brain forms habits, why porn hijacks it, and how to reverse the wiring.
• The 10-Second Window
Mastering temptation moments that determine your life’s direction.
• Temptations, Triggers & The Escape Cycle
Learning your patterns — and breaking them for good.
• Rebuilding Marriage: The Healing Roadmap
What trust repair actually looks like … and the steps a real man takes.
• Marriage Repair Foundations
The truth about rebuilding trust, owning the damage, and giving your wife the pathway she deserves.
• The Advocate & Brotherhood Model
Why men fall alone and rise together — and how to build your support team.
• The 60-Day Traction Plan
A clear, practical roadmap for staying free after the Intensive.
• Sacred Rituals - Filling Your Toolbelt
Practical, spiritual, and behavioral tools and practices to win the fight long-term.
• Closing Blessing & Commissioning
Not an ending — a resurrection.
What sets House of Resurrection apart?
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Our outcomes are four times higher than secular rehab because we target the heart and the brain — not just behavior.
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We don’t teach behavior management — we lead men into resurrection through the presence and power of Jesus.
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A distraction-free, temptation-free refuge where you can finally breathe, focus, and do the deep work without the noise.
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Walks in the woods, fireside conversations, a private prayer chapel, and space to reconnect with God’s voice in creation.
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Blaine merges Christ-centered formation with proven neuroscience — and brings the authority of his own victory over a 23-year addiction.
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Secular treatment costs $10K–$20K a week — our entire experience is under $2K because hope should never be pay-walled.
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A monthly investment that fits your budget — because money should never be the reason a man stays stuck.
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You’ll walk with a brotherhood of other graduates in weekly online coaching — ensuring resurrection becomes your new lifestyle.
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A structured masterclass with videos and a guide to lock in new habits and reinforce your transformation back home.
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Complimentary coaching for couples after the Intensive — giving wives clarity, communication tools, and hope.
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For an entire year, Blaine is only one call or text away — real support from someone who’s walked the same road and won.
“I battled porn for 17 years and never believed freedom was possible — two years after my Intensive, I’m still living healed and clean.”
-M.R., Denver, CO
“The moment I picked him up at the airport, I knew something in him was different — five years later we’re helping other couples heal.”
- L. & D. M., Sacramento, CA
“I was skeptical — we’re not super religious people — but this completely changed my husband’s life and saved our marriage.”
- A.T., Philadelphia, PA
“I came as a fired pastor ready to end it all; I left with my life, my calling, and real brothers who walked me back into ministry.”
— P.E., St. Paul, MN
“Blaine, just a note three years after our Intensive together — I haven’t relapsed into porn in over 2½ years, my wife and I are in love again, and I’ve returned to ministry on the mission field in Haiti… thank you for giving me my life back.”
— P.C., Miami, FL
TESTIMONIALS
“The payment plan was a lifesaver for us… it made what felt impossible financially completely doable.”
-P.R., Grand Rapids, MI
“Our lives were so transformed through my husband’s Intensive that we now partner with House of Resurrection to help other men rise.”
-C. & J. K., Calgary, Canada
“The affordability shocked me — meals, lodging, and world-class coaching for a price any man can reach. And then to experience freedom for the first time I can remember…”
— T.J., Toronto, ON, Canada“My wife was ready to leave me. I had failed again and again. It was do or die for me and one year later, here i am. Married. Happy. and free! Thank you Blaine!”
— O.H.,, Dallas, TX
“I did my research. programming similar to House of Resurrection, cost multiplied thousands of dollars. I would have paid twice as much for all that Blaine poured into me.”
— B.G., Vancouver, Canada
“To have someone walk with me for a full year after the Intensive was unbelievable — I finally felt like I wasn’t fighting alone.”
- B.J., Boise, ID
“One weekend here did more for my recovery than five years of counseling — and the full year of follow-up sealed the change.”
— R.L., Tulsa, OK
FAQ’S
What is House of Resurrection?
House of Resurrection is a nonprofit, Jesus-centered residential healing refuge nestled on nearly 10 wooded acres just outside Tulsa, Oklahoma — a private, peaceful environment designed to bring men out of secrecy and into resurrection.
How do I schedule my Freedom Intensive?
It’s simple — just complete the registration form, and we’ll work directly with your calendar to place you in one of our upcoming Intensives, typically within 15–30 days. We make sure the timing works for your life, your family, and your readiness to begin.
What is the difference between a Freedom Intensive and Micro-Intensive?
The Micro-Intensive is a 3-hour online session designed for men battling early-stage patterns like porn use, compulsive masturbation, or chat-based sexual behavior. It focuses on assessment, practical tools, brain science, and a personalized plan to stop the cycle before it grows deeper.
The Freedom Intensive is a two-day residential experience for men facing long-term addiction or crisis-level behavior—porn addiction, affairs, strip clubs, hookup cycles, or hidden double-life patterns. It goes far deeper, addressing trauma, story roots, shame, identity, and long-term transformation. It also includes a full year of aftercare.
Both lead toward freedom—one is early intervention, the other is full restoration.
What makes this different from rehab or counseling?
Most programs try to fix behavior — we go after identity and desire using a proven blend of Christ-centered formation + neuroscience. Freedom doesn’t happen in a moment… but resurrection does start there.
What are your success rates?
While secular treatment hovers near 20% success after one year, over 80 % of our men remain free long-term. Why? Because the real transformation happens in the 12 months after the Intensive, and we walk with you every step of the way.
What does the Freedom Intensive include?
Two full days of personalized coaching, a private residential stay, meals, outdoor therapy experiences, a 60-day growth plan, weekly brotherhood coaching for one year, and direct access to Blaine for support throughout your journey.
Do you work with couples or marriages too?
Yes — we offer a powerful Marriage Intensive for couples rebuilding after betrayal, focusing on forgiveness, trust, and restoring connection through Jesus and trauma-informed care.
Do I need to tell my wife?
Honesty is essential for real freedom, but timing matters. Blaine will guide you in when and how to disclose so it becomes a healing moment instead of a traumatic one.
What if I'm single or separated?
We coach men in all life stages. Whether you’re rebuilding a marriage or preparing for a future one, this is the safest place to reset your life and future relationships.
How many men will be in my Intensive?
Usually 2–3 other men will walk with your on this road toward freedom. This dynamic is intentional — when men step into honesty together, the shame loses its power, breakthroughs multiply, and courage transfers from one heart to another. You get personalized coaching and the strength of brotherhood, creating a transformation that goes deeper and lasts longer.
Do I need to be religious?
No — you just need to be hungry for freedom. We lead you on the Jesus path, not a religious one.
What should I bring?
We’ll send a simple packing list (clothes, toiletries, Bible if you have one). Everything else — housing, food, coaching, and resources — is provided.
How do I get there?
Drive directly to our secure residence near Wagoner, OK — or fly into Tulsa International Airport and we’ll provide transportation if needed (small fee).
How much does it cost?
Most rehab centers charge $10,000–$20,000 per week. We keep freedom accessible — the entire Freedom Intensive and full year of aftercare is just $1,950.
Do you offer financing?
Yes. After a $175 deposit, we provide a simple $175/month plan so finances never stand in the way of healing.
Is this confidential?
100%. What happens here stays here. No reporting, no labels — only restoration.
Will I really be free?
If you fully commit — yes. We’ve watched hundreds of men step out of the grave and never go back. You don’t need another attempt…
You need a resurrection.
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